Archive for March, 2010

Chuck E. Cheese Adventure


2010
03.27

Thomas has a friend at his preschool that just turned 5 and celebrated his birthday at Chuck E. Cheese’s.  I’d never been there before.  I never want to go back.  It is full of screaming kids, although they are having a good time.  I guess it could be worse.  If only I’d taken my friend’s advice and worn some ear plugs it might have been bearable.  I didn’t eat any food because I knew that we had pizza at home and there would be plenty left for me, but it looked pretty good and Thomas stuffed it down quickly so he could get on to the cake and then to what he loved the most…playing in the hamster-looking tubes.  He did ride the carousel a few times, drove a car with Stuart Little, and sat on a Clifford car, but he was enjoying the sweaty stuff much more (hamster tubes and curly slide).

He didn’t want to leave and was already asking when we could go back before we even got to the car.  I wanted to tell him never, but I didn’t have the heart.  Next time one of his friends invites him to Chuck E. Cheese’s for a birthday party, Woody can take him!

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How to Make Paint


2010
03.10

Tomskateboarding On the way to school this morning, Thomas was telling me how to make paint.  He said, “First you add a little salt.  Then you put in some sour lemon.  The very best ingredient comes next, and it is so yummy and healthy—you are going to love it.  It’s a scoop of ice cream!”

Not sure if you could paint with that, but I thought it was cute.

Fasting


2010
03.05

As a member of the Baha’i Faith, every year from March 2-20 we fast from sunrise to sunset.  This means no food or drink during daylight hours, which isn’t really as difficult as it seems.

We are told that

Fasting is a symbol. Fasting signifies abstinence from lust. Physical fasting is a symbol of that abstinence, & is a reminder; that is, just as a person abstains from physical appetites, he is to abstain from self-appetites & self-desires. But mere abstention from food has no effect on the spirit. It is only a symbol, … a reminder. Otherwise it is of no importance.

and ‘Abdu’l-Baha tells us this:

… For this material fast is an outer token of the spiritual fast; it is a symbol of self-restraint, the withholding of oneself from all appetites of the self, taking on the characteristics of the spirit, being carried away by the breathings of heaven and catching fire from the love of God.

Woody and I get up each morning and eat breakfast together.  Deanna has been sick so she doesn’t have to fast until she gets better.  This year would be her first time to fast, since the age of maturity for Baha’is is 15.  She is a little bummed about it because I think she was looking forward to seeing what it was like, but hopefully she’ll get over her coughing and sneezing and ear infection and can join us!

I have been reflecting more on the life of my spirit while fasting.  I’m thinking about how no food and drink affects my mental capacities and my energy levels in the late afternoon, and wondering how my soul suffers when I don’t feed it the spiritual food it needs to flourish.  This has been a good fast for me so far.  I’m not working yet (still on disability a little while longer), so I have a lot of time to let the meaning of the fast sink in.

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